Fertility Patterns

It is God's commandment to multiply and replenish the earth. Yet there are so many people who struggle to have families and suffer from infertility and perinatal loss. Infertility and perinatal loss is one of those things that people don’t really talk about. These are things that many people experience yet, no one knows people are going through it. In the article titled "Coping with Grief in Perinatal Loss" it says, 
“Perinatal death is tragic, but there are many ways of coping. There is no one method that is perfect for everyone. Your bereavement process can be as unique as you are. We hope that you will be able to find a source of comfort and healing that works best for you, and that someday you will be able to face the future with peace and hope.”
I have experienced this in my own life. I recently had a miscarriage and it was really hard for me and my husband. We felt discourage and somewhat lost. I think the one thing that helped me to overcome this was knowing that everything happens for a reason and to trust in the Lord’s timing. I have found a lot of peace and comfort knowing I am not alone in this. Another thing that has been very helpful is knowing that there are resources out there. It wasn’t until I had a miscarriage that I realized how common it is. Talking with other women who have experienced the same thing has really helped me heal and cope with this.

Image may contain: one or more people, people standing, sky, wedding and outdoor
https://foreverfamilies.byu.edu/Pages/challenges/Coping-with-Grief-in-Perinatal-Loss.aspx


Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Man & Woman

Image
Something I have really been thinking about this week has been what marriage means to me. Being a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints I know that marriage is between a man and a woman. The Family: A Proclamation to the World says, " THE FAMILY  is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity." With the redefining o f marriage it can be hard to stand on the side where marriage should remain between a man and a woman. Although I love those that choose to live differently than I believe I will not accept and see it the same way that they see it. I personally have several LDS friends who have come out and shared with the world that they are gay. They struggle with this, but they still testify and know that marriage is between a man and a woman.  I am so blessed to have...
Read more

Mothers

Image
Mothers are truly remarkable. They do so much and expect nothing. The Family a Proclamation to The World says: "Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children." Mothers have a natural need to care and nurture children. Heavenly Father made woman loving, caring, patient, and so much more. These amazing qualities are what make mothers so great at what they do.  The country singer Luke Bryan wrote a song called "most people are good" in his song he says,  "And most mama's oughta qualify for sainthood" Isn't that the truth! Mothers are amazing. The first presidency statement in 1942 declared:  "Motherhood is near to divinity. It is the highest, holiest service to be assumed by mankind. It places her who honors its holy calling and service next to the angles." I don't know where I would be without my mother. She is always there for me when I need her. She listens to me and talks to me. I ca...
Read more